I came across this saying, that is credited to ‘NaMedina El Tahiti’ and I quote-"When a girl is used to getting hurt, she won't know how it feels when a guy starts to appreciate her, so she ends up pushing him away”
My take on the issue is…when a man comes across such a girl, some PATIENCE (on the part of the man) is what is actually needed-especially when he knows where ...the girl is coming from. We are all products of our experiences (to a large extent)...remember?
What he sees as PUSHING AWAY could very well be her SURVIVAL TECHNIQUE... or she is just being CAREFUL not to get hurt again. I do not see why such GUARDED BEHAVIOR should disqualify her from the love a man that is GENUINE...my two cents.
And to THE HEART BROKEN (man/woman)…I will only say that LIFE itself is a risk. When it comes to matters of the heart, one cannot really be too careful. You only know your motive-and not the motive of the other fellow.
You have no option than to give someone a chance someday. You probably experienced the NOT SO IDEAL part of life, so you can learn to cloak yourself in ‘goodness’. There should come a point in your life when you should not only decide to laugh but to LOVE again. One who abuses your ‘goodness’ is actually the loser because the next person he will meet will most likely be his type, as life rewards your ‘goodness’. And like a saying goes …’’ Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened.’’. Everything that happens to us in life is actually a pathway to what is to come, that is- If a situation is not a blessing to you, at least it taught you a lesson. The ‘wrong person’ needed to give way for the ‘right’ person to come on board. Keep a positive mindset; it is very important that you do not allow yourself to be overly cynical about Love…that is a recipe for a lonely and unhappy existence
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