I have always likened Facebook( and the social media in general) for some MEN to a child who finds himself in a candy shop and suddenly realized that he can actually have any candy of his choice by merely expressing enough interest.
We also know that the social media is a PLAY GROUND of sorts for MOST men-who one assumed (they) know where to draw the lines but it’s beginning... to look like one actually underestimated the HOLD that some of the activities on Facebook (as it relates to AVAILABLE GIRLS) have on these men and what makes this very painful is realizing that a sane family man will knowingly jeopardize his marriage and the welfare of his family for FACEBOOK WHORES!
It was a weekend with a HURTING WIFE…You know how devastating it feels when you suddenly realize that the spouse you can vouch (to any length) for is far from the persona he presents? That was the experience of this lady. All came in the open on the day he forgot to log off the internet and she needed to use the computer. She did not only realized that her husband (a man in his LATE 40s) has numerous FAKE online identities (with which he preyed on UNDER AGED GIRLS), he has also been sending them money-same man that has been asking her to TRY TO UNDERSTAND whenever she pointed to the fact that the money he makes is never felt at home these days-especially where the needs of the house hold is concerned. This is a man that has infected her TWICE and threw 3k at her to go treat herself. She said that the most painful one is that he no longer goes to church, even when he is eating-he is pinging. And the day she knew this is no longer ordinary was on a day that he was in front of his computer and their 3year old sauntered by-that he shouted on the boy and she ran out of the room-thinking something happened to their baby-only to realize that her husband was only mad because the boy was disrupting his FACEBOOK CHAT SESSION. The weekend she was expected to go into labour (for their second baby)-her husband claimed to have an emergency business related trip out of town. That night she went into labour, his gsm lines were unreachable. It was neighbours (who couldn’t believe that a man would dare travel at such a period) that took her to the hospital. The day she stumbled on his FACEBOOK exchanges also explained her husband’s absence on the night she went into labour…he and the new FACEBOOK catch were regaling each other with their sexcapades! She told me that it hurts to suddenly realize that you don’t even know whom you have been married to all along. She said the whole thing made her feel so insecure that she had to swallow her hurts one day to ask if ALL THESE has anything to do with some inadequacy on her part, as a wife…because when she confronted him with her findings-he became so emboldened with his interactions with ‘face book girls’ such that when they are supposed to have a family time in the sitting room-he sits away from her and the kids…pinging!
A man who has no discipline over his actions will never go far in life. I know that most men on the social media are being MISCHIEVOUS but for one to brazenly jeopardize his marriage/family welfare over some DIRTY FACEBOOK GIRLS (that string other men along as well) is most disappointing. We have been heaping insults on YERIMAs of the senate but some men do worse-from the comforts of their home and laptop/BB. It is a SHAME that any man will lose his head in this manner…when REAL MEN are busy making life better for their families. MOST of the so called FACEBOOK girls have simply ‘ported’ from standing on the streets to hustling men on the social media…just so you know what you are allowing yourself to get into-when that girl jumps on you with all SEX OFFERS.
We also know that the social media is a PLAY GROUND of sorts for MOST men-who one assumed (they) know where to draw the lines but it’s beginning... to look like one actually underestimated the HOLD that some of the activities on Facebook (as it relates to AVAILABLE GIRLS) have on these men and what makes this very painful is realizing that a sane family man will knowingly jeopardize his marriage and the welfare of his family for FACEBOOK WHORES!
It was a weekend with a HURTING WIFE…You know how devastating it feels when you suddenly realize that the spouse you can vouch (to any length) for is far from the persona he presents? That was the experience of this lady. All came in the open on the day he forgot to log off the internet and she needed to use the computer. She did not only realized that her husband (a man in his LATE 40s) has numerous FAKE online identities (with which he preyed on UNDER AGED GIRLS), he has also been sending them money-same man that has been asking her to TRY TO UNDERSTAND whenever she pointed to the fact that the money he makes is never felt at home these days-especially where the needs of the house hold is concerned. This is a man that has infected her TWICE and threw 3k at her to go treat herself. She said that the most painful one is that he no longer goes to church, even when he is eating-he is pinging. And the day she knew this is no longer ordinary was on a day that he was in front of his computer and their 3year old sauntered by-that he shouted on the boy and she ran out of the room-thinking something happened to their baby-only to realize that her husband was only mad because the boy was disrupting his FACEBOOK CHAT SESSION. The weekend she was expected to go into labour (for their second baby)-her husband claimed to have an emergency business related trip out of town. That night she went into labour, his gsm lines were unreachable. It was neighbours (who couldn’t believe that a man would dare travel at such a period) that took her to the hospital. The day she stumbled on his FACEBOOK exchanges also explained her husband’s absence on the night she went into labour…he and the new FACEBOOK catch were regaling each other with their sexcapades! She told me that it hurts to suddenly realize that you don’t even know whom you have been married to all along. She said the whole thing made her feel so insecure that she had to swallow her hurts one day to ask if ALL THESE has anything to do with some inadequacy on her part, as a wife…because when she confronted him with her findings-he became so emboldened with his interactions with ‘face book girls’ such that when they are supposed to have a family time in the sitting room-he sits away from her and the kids…pinging!
A man who has no discipline over his actions will never go far in life. I know that most men on the social media are being MISCHIEVOUS but for one to brazenly jeopardize his marriage/family welfare over some DIRTY FACEBOOK GIRLS (that string other men along as well) is most disappointing. We have been heaping insults on YERIMAs of the senate but some men do worse-from the comforts of their home and laptop/BB. It is a SHAME that any man will lose his head in this manner…when REAL MEN are busy making life better for their families. MOST of the so called FACEBOOK girls have simply ‘ported’ from standing on the streets to hustling men on the social media…just so you know what you are allowing yourself to get into-when that girl jumps on you with all SEX OFFERS.
Dem nor dey stand for road again-thanks to Facebook and cousins…WOE BETIDE ANY FAMILY MAN that loses his head over this-to the detriment of his family!
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