Tuesday, 13 August 2013

WHAT' DO YOU ADVICE?

The matter he brought before the Parliament is about his wife and uncle (his mum’s ELDER brother). He inherited his late mum’s place in her Father’s compound and that is where he and his wife have been living-coupled with the fact that the location of the area helped flourish his business. His mum’s elder brother (whose family resides in another state) also relocated back home (same compound)-after his years in the civil service. So, in a way, it looks like a FAMILY HOUSE setting where his uncle is deferred to as the head of the family. Even though he seems to be taking his position in the family too serious-even to the point of meddling in others’ affairs. For example, his uncle has been complaining about his wife’s dress sense.
 His uncle claims that his wife (of two years and the mother of his one year old son) does not dress like a married woman- that she dresses as if she is still single. Fact is that he has no problems with his wife’s way of dressing and has said so to his uncle but his uncle still went ahead to have a confrontation with his woman-accusing her of carrying on (via her dressing) as if there is still vacancy for other men in her life…yet these exact dressing of his wife is what turns him on. He is very confused about how to handle this…he would not want to make his uncle to feel insulted (by being confronted) but at the same time, the man is driving him nuts. Would it be nice to ask his wife to stop being herself to appease his uncle?
He has asked the Parliament to ADVISE him. His father (although NOT MARRIED to his mother is late). He is 30 years old, while his wife is 24years old.

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