10 WAYS TO WRECK A FIRST DATE...

A first date is one of the most important,for very obvious reasons.The better you do on the first date the more likelihood of a  would be second and third date...yes!
Most men just keep getting it wrong, over and over on the first date.

I have been on quite a number of first dates, and many of them got screwed up. It seems funny when i talk about it to my friends,but while the drama was unfolding.it did not seem funny at all. So in the interest of reducing future dismal dates, i have made a list of things not to do on your first date and please...
Do not : 

1. Appear to be nervous : Its normal to be considerate on a first date,its recommended. BUT don't try so hard that you end up sweating,and don't forget that you are the host and your date will be happy to follow your lead.No need to be insecure-after all didn't she agree to go out with you?
2. Choose a bad restaurant or venue : Oh Boy! Make sure the place you take your date isn't noisy,dirty,or miles away in heavy traffic. Keep it simple.Usually most women of any age would be happy at a small italian place for a first date. The important thing is that you are able to converse without much distraction.Save your favorite joint for a later time when you know each other better.
3. Appear fussy while interacting with servers : Just order the food and move on! Don't  interview the server. Don't send anything back unless it has a rat in it,and a live one at that. he he he 
4.  Brag about your accomplishments : If a woman likes you trust me she likes you for who you are.You don't need to make flimsy connections between yourself and one celebrity somewhere...loll..Talk instead about what you enjoy doing,what you've done recently that's slightly out of the ordinary.
5. Forget to ask questions : Your date is a person too. Don't forget that! even though she is a female,she has a brain very much like yours and a heart, and a soul, too.Give her a chance to tell you about herself. Please only ask reasonable questions.
6. Speak bad of past dates,girlfriends,or wives : It doesn't matter how unpleasant your ex was,your current date doesn't want to know about it.She'll instantly put herself in your ex';s shoes and feel some female solidarity. 
7. Look at other women : If a hot lady walks by,you aren't expected to ignore her per say (although you can choose not to look) but your expression when you finally return your gaze to your date should be of bemusement,not unfettered lust!
8. Ash her if she wants children : You might be conditioned to believe that all women want to marry- that they are desperate,in fact. But it's not true! so if you think you can score faster by talking serious relationship on a first date,think again.
9. Agree to split the payment : If you asked her out.You pay.Even if you didn't ask her out you pay. Don't let her trick you by offering to pay.
10. Not try for a kiss tonight,or more...: Yes,you should try for a kiss,or even a peck but not without her consent.You can politely ask her"May i kiss you tonight?" it might work. If she says "no" just smile and thank her for a great evening.If she says "yes" take it moment by moment.

Failure to at least try something is going to make you feel worse,that might even make her think you don't like her.So risk rejection and make a little move.She 'll appreciate it if she's into you,and if she isn't...well,you'll find out fast ! 

Put all this to action and i assure you a beautiful first date...