Overtime i have realized that their are a whole lot of things that we ladies don't just get right when it comes to dating. One major challenge ladies have is that we are too quick to act too committed, and needy.Most guys also have this similarity with women. But in this article am going to try to pinpoint more on what the ladies get completely wrong when dating someone casually.
The Commitment Talk:
It's good to have an effective conversation,this is where most ladies get it wrong INCLUDING ME! Not been able to have a descent conflict free conversation, is the easiest way to screw and destroy a potential relationship. The kind of talk am referring to, is the kind that you constantly ask the guy you are dating...Where is this relationship heading to? At some point in a new relationship their naturally comes a time when it becomes scary and vulnerable,that point that you as a lady don't really know where you stand in the relationship.Now this is where we get it wrong. Pressurizing the guy to be more committed only makes him want to run away from the relationship.Guys hate to be pressurized this way.They can't stand the smell of a crazed committed woman. Just relax ladies cos when you relax that's when he would want to take it to the next level
Ladies be yourself
Some ladies loose themselves by forgetting who they are once they get into a relationship and more often they try to act the guy by been who they are not.Guys loves ladies with their own style,personality and life. Guys love you the way you are no more no less
if someone doesn't like and appreciate you the way you are then Ditch Him Please. Oh Yea
Give Him His Privacy
Please don't misunderstand me.The starting period in any relationship,is usually the honeymoon phase. But it becomes very challenging when you get to that point that you just cant stop thinking about him, then you will know you re in goo vooo land.... hehehe
No matter how strong your feelings for him are,you need to give him space at some point.Guys love their independence and don't want to loose it for anything. Try not to be in constant contact with him.
The now WE from HE thought scares him.
Fact is you can't be missed when you won't go away! He appreciates you more when you give him the gift of your absence,that will make him even miss you more and will appreciate the time that you spend together.
OK i should draw the curtain here.Tell me what you think...Guys/Girls Do you agree? Your views are appreciated. Please share your thoughts...
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